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Nigerian Youths Stress (to be) Corpers

5:20 am, October 4th 2012 my alarm rings! According to my Dad, I had to be up early to head to Yakubu Gowon House (YGH) in Abuja which houses the Nigerian Youth Service Corps. A quick dash into the shower and dressing up was all I needed. After all I was prepared (so I thought). I arrived at Tigris crescent, parked, got out and headed for the main gate of YGH. On getting there, the security man instantly knew why I was there even before I said anything (this was 7:30am). So I answered Yes! since he had the gift of “knowing”. This was just the beginning of a long day!!!

Got back into the car, the wait has just begun. On the offside, I had to pay 300 naira to park for 5 hours. The officer also told me I was parked facing the wrong direction. I quickly looked around thinking I missed something like a sign saying “ONE WAY or NO ENTRY”. Alas!!! There weren’t any. All I could do was shake my head, after four years away studying and in the Capital city of Nigeria, there should have been some improvement in communicating rules for motorists.

Back to my major task of the day, at about 8:15am, a queue had formed outside the gate of students who studied abroad (Nna I quickly joined the queue). You could easily tell in dressing and in the way they carried themselves. Some more or less than others dressed like it was time for party, others so casual and the minority were corporate and decent at the same time. Of course, I was in the minority.

10.00am sharp, a man in red, navy blue and white polo came out and asked us to make sure we have all our photocopies handy. Next, we were to move to the other side of the gate to make a new queue. I assumed as international students that have lived and studied in organized country’s like the UK and USA will just walk to the other side. But No!! The rush to the other side which was just few seconds away shocked me. Just like the bible says, the first shall become the last and vice versa, so it was literally. All those of us in the middle were obviously re-positioned due to the rush.

Security and Identification checks were carried out before I went through the gate and once I was in the building. Several “signing in” books I had to fill (oh I had visitors tag too).

Here on was the race to get registered as soon as possible. I filled the registration forms, and waited for my number to be called. 46 it was. Did the number really help in organizing things? The answer is NO!! As of 12.30 there about, the last number I heard was 30. Believe it or not, that was were the madness began. Pushing and shouting to get through the Wing B iron gate was the main task in most people minds. While some quietly sat down, some stood afar off, some went calling for “connections”.

Prior to that, there was a guy who had disappeared from the queue outside, and he was in before the rest of us. I had to ask “how did you get here?” His answer, “Juice”. Like I knew what that meant.

Alongside pushing and shouting came angry students and their parents. Angry at what? Everything! The people who showed up from no where and went in like they had every right to without a number. I call it taking the back door. It became literal when I had to do the same to at least start the process. The first room through the back door on the right was the first port of call. Look for your school in tattered big and medium sized books. This came after one of the three ladies in the wonderfully air conditioned room has stapled all your documents.

Once I was done here, I went to room 112 for UK students which I was. Another queue, another wait to enter another really air conditioned room with two guys. Some people on the queue had been in before and shared that the guy in the white shirt and red tie was not so friendly but the man in the cream suit was. Shall I call that separating wheat from chaff?

It was here I met a setback. When it was my turn, I met the ‘unfriendly staff’ and I stood until he asked me to sit. He went through my form again, with a tipex pen he shaded some things. He also went through my photocopies and then he pointed out that my NECO certificate wasn’t there. I wanted to scream but my nature wouldn’t let me, so all that ended as a thought.

Now here’s what I don’t understand. If I went through one lady and she certified that all was intact and stapled then why would he not allow it?

This ended my day, had to head back home without accomplishment. I shall return again tomorrow (5th October) once my NECO certificate gets to me from Lagos, hopefully before 4pm.

You can look forward to part two of my NYSC registration experience.

SaulaB

 
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Posted by on October 4, 2012 in Experiences in Nigeria

 

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Be right

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Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost; (Titus 3:5 )

Righteousness is the result of what Christ has done not what you have done. You can not work your way into righteousness.

But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away. (Isaiah 64:6 KJV)

If our righteousness is as dirty rags, then how does God still require us to walk in righteousness? We are made righteous by faith in Christ.

Even the righteousness of God which is by faith of Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference: For all have sinned, and come short of theā€¦

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Posted by on March 17, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

Why don’t I trust God?

Am I afraid of Him or is it because I’ve never seen Him?

My human flesh cannot comprehend the vision of Him yet He made me in His image.

Do I even know the kind of God i say I serve? Yet He watches over me everyday with His merciful and compassionate eyes.

Do I even know all of what He has delivered me from? I know some quite alright, I thank Him for everything anyway but I still don’t completely let Him rule my life because my faith, trust and hope in Him has wavered.

All so great and mighty God if every day of my life was made to understand You, I will get lost in You.

So I pray that You make me a no brainer like the birds and the fishes in the sea that don’t worry about a thing in their world though less complicated than mine because I have trust issues.

Now faith is the substance of things hoped for the evidence of things not seen. That means faith is the koko that cannot be defined in any language or context, the salt when put in food I don’t see anymore but i taste it, the air that I effortlessly breathe without seeing it.

You made the earth and all that lies therein. For the fact that it stays wherever you have placed it in space, I trust You. For the fact that I have not one day lacked a need, I have faith in You. You are the only trustworthy God and the only God. If I doubt You then my existence is an epic fail for without You I can do nothing.

Chikena!!!

 
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Posted by on September 3, 2013 in September 2013

 

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The Perspective from Anonymous

I’ve always said, foremost, I am African before I am Nigerian!

I say so because, Africa has existed from time and created by God, but, it was man who divided and made countries! Think of it, our identity as a Nigerian would have been different if the colonialists had chosen a different size and name for the country! That’s why to me if I want to do philanthropic works in Africa, which I plan on doing when my jewelry line gets bigger, it doesn’t matter where! I want to do as much to help in many countries!

I really think as Africans we suffer from self victimization, which leads to low self esteem, greed, corruption, inferiority complex, colorism, and laziness! How many live aid concerts does Ethiopia need, how much foreign aid do we need!?

If you tell a child that he or she is stupid and force feed him or her constantly, the child will believe he or she is stupid, and grow up to be daft! Also, as the child grows up and matures, he or she has no one to blame but himself or herself if this carries on going on a downward spiral! Yes, the childhood trauma could have been terrible, but with learning and therapy, the child can overcome it!

It is time for the dark continent to become bright and set the world ablaze!

Anonymous vent of an African

Look out for more anonymous by many voices for AfricašŸ˜‰

 
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Posted by on August 8, 2013 in August 2013

 

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Amazing

 
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Posted by on May 23, 2013 in Uncategorized

 
Aside

I ain’t got time!!!!

Yes!! I said it!

I ain’t got time

Shall I repeat

I ain’t got time

I ain’t got time to sit next to you

or to listen to what you’ve been through

Hell No!! I ain’t got time and that’s the truth

I ain’t got time, so i’ll be rude

And oh, yes!!! I’ll be crude

I don’t have time to hold your hand

I don’t have time to lay at the beach in the sand

I don’t have time to hear in the background, a sound

I don’t have time for the band

So let go of my hand

I don’t have time for a second honeymoon

All by yourself, you go to the moon

I couldn’t care less if you come back soon

I’ll be too busy to even watch cartoons

with you; way too busy to speak to you at noon

Honey I don’t even have time for a walk

Even with the kids, lets not even talk

I don’t have time to write on a tree with a chalk

I’m even to busy to glance at the clock

Baby you know I gotta work

I’m too damn busy for all that

Too busy to hear the matter in your heart

I ain’t got time, that’s the heart of the matter

You may say i’m like Martha

But she was the only one busy enough to cater

Now you’re in pain

The bills are going insane

All I can think of is how to balance this plane

So I can be sane

I ain’t got time, so i’m on the fast lane

I ain’t got time was my excuse

To listen to you, I did refuse

It’s all burned out now, it’s of no use

Whom shall I accuse

But I had time, if only IĀ could put myself in your shoes

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……..But I had the time

 
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Posted by on May 23, 2013 in May 2013, Poems

 

Friendship

Today in more ways than one, I have learnt a lot about friendship. I have reflected and I’m still reflecting on friendships I have had, still have and don’t have anymore.

As a young person (though some people say I’m not young again), I find myself asking some inward questions like: ‘Is it really worth it? Do my friends appreciate me? Do I have friends?

Shocking questions I know, but you may have found yourself asking the same questions too at some point in your life. I began to look back on past friendships that have ended and those that still exist. I compared and contrasted. So here’s what I discovered about a friend indeed:

My friend, my friend

How did I come to know you?

Remind me of that day when I saw you

Let’s reflect together on us two

Remind us how one plus one became twoMy Comfort

Aaaah!Ā It was along the corridor, she said

Yes it was!! I replied

I can’t remember who said Hi first

But we were heading to the kitchen to quench our thirst

After the kitchen chat, each in our rooms laid to rest

I noticed you had an amazing sense of humor

Where you must have got it from, I tried to figure

Dad, mum or wherever, I loved your humor

Days passed, we talked a lot more

We became buddies.

We shopped together

Ran in the rainy weather

All the way it was laughter

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As time went on, IĀ realized

Our lives were intertwined

You always knew when i needed you

I always called when you thought of me.

Pure co-incidence some say

It happened so many times I lost count

Our friendship still alive

Always fired up even after an argument

True friends they say, are hard to find

But I say a friend should be true

My Encouragement

So with the few years I’ve spent on this earth

I have made friends, friends have made me

Though few, I’m grateful even today

I’m happy to say

I have a friend or two; few

Friends that have taught me

A lesson or two

About friendship, in its true sense

 

There is a friend that sticks closer than a brother (Proverbs 18:24)

I have found such friends in ladies and gentlemen alike

I have seen Jesus in these friends of mine

Full of forgiveness and love

Joy and the gentility of a dove

Comfort and compassion

 

So to those friends who have been

And still are a part of my life

I love you and appreciate you

I hope I’ve been a friend to you

Just as much as you have been a friend to me.

God bless you.

 

Saula B

 

 

 
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Posted by on March 25, 2013 in March 2013, Uncategorized

 

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Three Words I Stutter……

IĀ 

I love

Love I,

I love you,

You, I love

Love I you

Ā 

Love

Let Love

Love let me

I let love

Love carry me

Me, in your arms

Ā 

You love

Love, you

You love meĀ 

Believe you meĀ 

Three words, I

Down to two

Love you

 
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Posted by on October 8, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

Chronicles of my Heart……. sometime ago

I speak with a heavy heart

Every time I see you

My skin wails

When I’m next to you

Yes!! You have that effect on me

A scent of you puts me in a trance

A touch of you tears my skin apart

I’m torn apaart in myself

Asking why?

Why do you have this effect on me

The thought of you

Can make me so weak

I try to hide

But like auto drive

You just bring it all out of me

If anyone told me

That i could still feel this way

Even after a year or two

I’d lie and say Hell No

Naaah

So today,

When I saw you

Holding hands with that girl

I shrinked inside

Knowing it wasnt my fingers inter-twined with yours

For the shame I carry

You are the last needle

That penetrates my skin

Tearing into my marrow

Peircing through my heart

For that moment

I felt what you felt

the burden in your eyes

the sorrow in your heart

the weakness in your knees

Then the guilt sets in

Now comes along te shame

which occured right before you

You couldnt stop it

But now it’s my torture

You’ve moved on

It doesnt look like i ever will

Seeing you at church

And every other day I….

I just feel pain

You used to say

‘Buki, you are a strong woman

I was your boss lady

IĀ got obssessed with my position in your heart

NowĀ I suffer the consequences

I guess that’s what love comes with

Sacrifice, pain, pleasure

Disdain, disgrace, shame

I just want to say,

If I ever loved anyone, it was you

You represent the why in every question

The what in any situation

What if ….

I didnt have to ask

Then I wouldn’t have to tell

 
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Posted by on October 8, 2012 in Poems

 

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All for me

He had compassion on my soul

He brought me close

He stripped me of clothes so foul

The accuser he did oppose

That made my sinful flesh howl

 

He knows my name

He speaks so softly

His blood covers my shame

That man of galilee

My flesh His word does tame

 

His light illuminates my sight

His perfect love casts out every fear

Love that holds me tight

Hate can’t dare

With His word I can boldly stand and fight

 

He did

All the way He,

All for me, His precious blood shed

Now I can see

I am freed

 

He did it for me

He can do it for you

Let Him in to be free

Thats all you need to do

Thats all I did to be free

 

 
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Posted by on October 8, 2012 in Poems

 

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Three Words

I

I love

Love I,

I love you,

You, I love

Love I you

 

Love

Let Love

Love let me

I let love

Love carry me

Me, in your arms

 

You love

Love, you

You love me

Believe you me

Three words, I

Down to two

Love you

 
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Posted by on October 8, 2012 in Poems

 

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